mysuryati here: Does Maturity Come with Age?

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Does Maturity Come with Age?

In my opinion, it doesn’t go that way. What make a person more matured is more to how he/she acted to what is happening in his/her surroundings. It can be personal attitudes, personalities and responsibilities towards his/her life. Am I right?

I always see a person deep inside. Looking for what is hidden in their minds. Some people can be happy making other people sad. Some people appreciate success with money. The more money they have, the more successful they feel but ignoring and not appreciating about people around them. To be simplified is not responsible…. But I wonder how they can have that happiness…? Are they good pretenders?

Actually this topic just came into my mind… I am celebrating my birthday tomorrow. But I did not see the difference in me. When people asked me about my feeling.. I just said there is no different of adding another year of age. The feeling just the same like when I was a small kid… “I want life full of fun and happiness!!”…. but now added with great responsibilities…! Am I matured?

Huh!.. I am not sure about the answer. But I am sure that I am trying my best to be a good mother to my kids and appreciating people around me. I love to see other people happy with my existence, not only at home but also in office.. As for now, I really appreciate what I have. I appreciate my good friends from my secondary schools that are still in contact in facebook… Agnna, Yanti.. My UUM friends.. Especially Rubijesmin… and my current Ericsson friends… At this moment I have about 398 people connected friends in Facebook… I wonder who will be the 400^th person… Thank you Facebook for keeping my friends so closely to me..

But the most people I appreciate are my kids… Sarah, Farah and Adam. Thank you for making my life so meaningful. I am very happy with their existence. Thank you for adding cheers into my life. Love you all very much!!